Welcome to the fun Friday A-Z blog hop. This weeks letter is N and “Needs” came to mind when thinking about being able to find and follow one’s passion. While driving, I remembered Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs I studied way back when in college. (I’m amazed I still remember these things – back then I swore I’d forget them as soon as the test was over.) Here’s a quick review:
At the top of the pyramid sits Self-Actualization – the hardest to reach and the best place to be. This is the spot where you have found and are able to follow your passion. All the other needs in the hierarchy have to be met before you reach this one. Sometimes you get stuck on or between one of the levels and your passion moves to the back burner.
We have all been there. Wanting to fulfill our passion, but being consumed by fear and anxiety because one of the needs on a lower level is not met. If you lose your job, are in the middle of a divorce, etc. it’s hard to give your full attention to that which makes your spirit soar – you get caught in just trying to survive.
And that is human nature. But always keep that tip of the pyramid in the back of your mind, like a candle in the night. It will guide you through your storm and give you purpose. One day you will get there.
What is really important to you? What do you want to get out of your life? The way you live your life should reflect that. Your passion will see you through.
And so, as another day goes by, identify your passion, see it clearly, let it guide and light your path, and…I have written.
I can’t imagine not living one’s life ignoring their passion. I often ponder people who are able to abide by never setting goals and wanting more. I just want so much MORE. I know it’s because this world is not my home. My spirit yearns for heaven. In the meantime, writing is where I get my taste of it.